On the other hand

[sathor]

I don't want anyone taking the former post out of context. I am not "dehumanizing" (her name) because I am writing about this. I genuinely liked her, and was somewhat disappointed when I knew I probably wouldn't be able to get even slightly intimate with her without breaking my own moral values. Although it does raise a good question.

Is it really that bad for someone who's in a relationship (if they are unhappy enough to look outside of it) to look for someone new? I mean, sure, I thought the idea was fucking revolting when I was in a relationship...but now I see that there's a lot of single people in the world that benefit from there being a more open atmosphere. I'm not condoning slutting around...rather that if your current relationship can't satisfy you the way you want, why bother being in it?

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[sathor.livejournal.com]

You could look at it as being afraid of being alone because they won't leave the person they are with. However, this girl in particular, I don't think her b/f was in town. I probably could've gotten laid. The body language was there but I didn't kino escalate. I don't know why. It wasn't a freeze so much, I think it was more like I didn't want to take it to that level because I knew I'd get what I wanted, and I had a feeling she had a boyfriend. However -she- kino escalated me at the end of the night. I'm surprised she didn't move in for a kiss, honestly.