On the other hand
Jan. 1st, 2010 09:09 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
sathorI don't want anyone taking the former post out of context. I am not "dehumanizing" (her name) because I am writing about this. I genuinely liked her, and was somewhat disappointed when I knew I probably wouldn't be able to get even slightly intimate with her without breaking my own moral values. Although it does raise a good question.
Is it really that bad for someone who's in a relationship (if they are unhappy enough to look outside of it) to look for someone new? I mean, sure, I thought the idea was fucking revolting when I was in a relationship...but now I see that there's a lot of single people in the world that benefit from there being a more open atmosphere. I'm not condoning slutting around...rather that if your current relationship can't satisfy you the way you want, why bother being in it?
Is it really that bad for someone who's in a relationship (if they are unhappy enough to look outside of it) to look for someone new? I mean, sure, I thought the idea was fucking revolting when I was in a relationship...but now I see that there's a lot of single people in the world that benefit from there being a more open atmosphere. I'm not condoning slutting around...rather that if your current relationship can't satisfy you the way you want, why bother being in it?
